1 - Never     2 - Rarely     3 - Sometimes     4 - Often

I feel a sense of relief when I don't have to be alone. ______
I think any relationship is better than nothing.
If I'm not in a dating relationship, I feel less desirable. ______
I experience a little bit of panic when I think of not having someone to be close to.
The very idea of being alone strikes fear in my heart. ______
I'm tempted to settle for most any relationship because I don't know if I can find anyone better.
In my romantic relationships, I am being selected rather than doing the selecting. ______
When I am dating someone, I feel better about myself.

I don't have a clear idea of the personal qualities I look for in a person to date or even be friends with.    

Quiz Scale
Add the numbers together to get your total score.

1-19: You are very secure in who you are and capable of making wise choices.  This should allow you to have good relationships.

20-29: You're off to a good start in developing your identity and self worth.  You may need to work on creating a whole sense of self that will help you have stronger, healthier relationships.

30-40: A score in this range is a strong indicator of your need to establish a stronger sense of your identity and personal wholeness.  You will want to learn how to move toward wholeness in yourself and in your relationships.

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